TBI Blogs: How 175 Families of a Maharashtra Village Came Together to Stop Child Marriage

Despite a long-held tradition of marrying off girls once they reach 15 years of age, a tribal village in the underdeveloped area of Palghar in Maharashtra has stopped the ill-advised practice of child marriage for the past two years. Nidhi Jamwal takes a closer look.

Summer vacations have just begun, and 15-year-old Sangeeta Yashwant Chavan is excited to be home. A student of boarding school Kasturba Gandhi Balika Vidyalaya at Sakri in Palghar district of Maharashtra meant for dropouts and never-enrolled tribal girls, Sangeeta plans to spend the vacation preparing for her eldest sister Savita’s marriage, scheduled later this year.

The mere mention of word lagan (marriage) makes Savita’s face go red as she blushes uncontrollably. It is not common to come across a 19-year-old unmarried girl in tribal villages of Mokhada taluka (administrative block) in Palghar, which, apart from early child marriages, are notorious for malnutrition.

“Unlike Sangeeta, who just completed her Class IX examinations, I dropped out of school after Class VII. Our parents were poor and migrated every year. In their absence, I had to look after my younger siblings,” says Savita, who has three younger sisters and two brothers. They belong to the Warli scheduled tribe, and live in Shivali village of Mokhada taluka. “But I feel fortunate that I was not pushed into an early marriage by my parents. I continue to help them in the fields and at home,” she told VillageSquare.in.

In Palghar, a tribal district carved out of Thane district of Maharashtra in 2014, it is common to marry off girls by the age of 15. Within a year, they become mothers. By the time they are Savita’s age, they already have 2-3 children.

Young girls of Shivali village in Mokhada are saying no to an early marriage. (Photo by Nidhi Jamwal)
Young girls of Shivali village in Mokhada are saying no to an early marriage. (Photo by Nidhi Jamwal)

Winds of change

However, slowly, a wind of change is blowing through the tribal villages, which are opposing child marriage and passing strictures against it. Shivali is one such village. In 2014, the village council of Shivali passed a thehrav (resolution) against child marriage. All its 175 families vowed not to marry their daughters before the age of 18. Since then, no underage girl has been married in Shivali.

“Early child marriage is a major social ill in adivasi areas such as Mokhada. Linked to it are other problems, such as maternal mortality, stunting, malnourished children, malnutrition deaths, poverty, etc,” Susheela Mahale of Aroehan, a Mokhada-based non-profit that works on health, education, and livelihoods, told VillageSquare.in.

As per news reports, anywhere between 254600 children died due to malnutrition last year in Palghar district of Maharashtra. Mokhada was one of the worst affected talukas. According to the National Family Health Survey-4 (2015-16), 49.9 % pregnant rural women (15-49 years) have anaemia in Maharashtra. More than 38 % rural children under the age of five are stunted (height-for-age). Another 26.1 %, 40 %, and 9.4 % under-five rural children are wasted (weight-for-height), underweight (weight-for-age), and severely wasted, respectively. The state government is working on a programme to reduce maternal mortality in adivasi talukas.

“When a malnourished, anaemic, and stunted girl marries by the age of 14-15 and bears a child at 16, her child also lacks nourishment and extremely weak. This pushes the adivasi girls into a vicious cycle, which is hard to break,” says Mahale. “An early marriage is a threat to both the young mother and her child’s life.” Mahale, a resident of Jawhar taluka, married at the age of 16. “I am now working with Aroehan to stop other adivasi girls from facing an underage marriage,” says Mahale.

Sangeeta Yeshwant Chavan wants to join the police force. “Marriage can wait,” she says. (Photo by Nidhi Jamwal)
Sangeeta Yashwant Chavan wants to join the police force. “Marriage can wait,” she says. (Photo by Nidhi Jamwal)

A dialogue begins

Aroehan, through its health programme, is working towards safe motherhood and reduced malnutrition in Mokhada and Jawhar talukas of Palghar. One of the important elements is to put an end to the practice of early marriage. “In order to educate adivasi girls and women, we regularly hold mata baithak (mothers’ gathering) and kishori sabha (young girls’ meeting) in the villages. Apart from discussing issues of puberty, pregnancy, and safe childbirth, we also talk about ill-effects of early marriage,” informs Mahale.

The progress is slow, but efforts are bearing fruits. “Earlier, as soon as a girl in our village used to hit puberty, her parents would marry her off. Girls never managed to study beyond Class VII (the zilla parishad school at Shivali is till Class VII),” Bharti Raghunath Khetadi, a resident of Shivali, told VillageSquare.in. “But, since the passing of the resolution against an early marriage, girls like Sangeeta are going to residential schools to pursue education. Some are learning tailoring, whereas others want to become nurses,” says a proud Khetadi.

Take the case of Sangeeta. After completing her education in the local zilla parishad (district council) school, she had to drop out for a year, but went back to school. “The year I completed Class VII in the local school, no seat was vacant in the Kasturba Gandhi Balika Vidyalaya at Sakri, about 8 km. from our village.  I waited for a year, and my father ensured I got admission the next year,” says Sangeeta, whose elder sisters, Savita (19) and Kavita (17), studied till Class VII. Four more girls from Shivali village study in the residential school at Sakri.

Campaigning against child marriage

According to Khetadi, passing the resolution against early marriage wasn’t an easy decision. “We personally visited people’s homes who were resisting the proposed resolution, and explained how an early marriage translates into sickness and diseases, which leads to debt, migration, poverty, and death,” reminisced Khetadi.

Khetadi and her colleagues informed those who still did not understand that marriage below the age of 18 was a crime, and could lead to imprisonment. Eventually, the entire village came together and passed the resolution in the Gram Sabha in 2014. Villagers claim the resolution has stopped early marriage of at least 45 young girls.

“We are glad our daughters are finally dreaming big,” Jagdish Balchandra Khupane of Shivali village told VillageSquare.in. “Better late than never.”

Meanwhile, Sangeeta has her future plan of action ready. “After completing my graduation, I will join the police force. Marriage can wait,” she says smilingly. Her elder sisters, Savita and Kavita, admire her with pride.

(The author is an independent journalist based in Mumbai.)

Adapted from an article originally published on VillageSquare.in. Subscribe to VillageSquare’s weekly update on the website for more stories from rural India.

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